Path towards improvement.

Each day, we are presented with many choices, whether it's a call from a friend, a dinner invitation from a relative, or a new opportunity to expand our business. There can be countless good options. Conversely, negative situations may also occur, such as a call from a friend whose father has just suffered a heart attack, or a relative who has just had an accident, among other things. We are all presented with many choices, situations, and opportunities every day. Not every day is the same for all of us. The question then arises: what should we focus on and what should we not?

 Places change, circumstances change, the environment changes, people change, and sometimes, everything changes. Above all, change has always been the law of nature. Many things change altogether, but what remains is our desire to accomplish something. No matter where you stand in your life, whatever your conditions may be, take them in stride and keep moving forward by following the path of improvement. Do not concern yourself with what the world thinks of you or your work. If you are determined to achieve something, keep your eye on the destination and always strive to follow the right path – the path of improvement, the path of truth, the path of honesty, and the path of kindness. 

Life is a practical collection of events, and it is not always possible that you will get what you invest in. You may be defeated, betrayed, and lose trust in people or in the process itself. The universe will test you by every means to prove that you deserve to be at the place you aim for. That will be the real showtime where you must remain courageous and limitless. You may be putting in more effort than ever before, but you may be struggling every bit, every now and then, and getting no results. A point will come when you will start questioning your own efforts, but never lose courage and never lose belief in yourself. Do you really deserve to be at the place where you think about it, or are you just investing in something worthless? At that point in your life, you may feel lost, alone, shattered, and worthless, but that is when you will require your own support more than ever before. If you lose your belief in yourself, you will be left with nothing. It takes more than hard work to get to where you want to be; it takes the courage to be yourself and focus on the path of improvement. 

"The moment you decide not to accept failure as part of your identity, you will regain yourself as a whole."

Your brain automatically starts to flush ideas to get out of the rut you have been stuck in, only when you decide to. It is true that when things actually happen outside of our heads, we feel differently about them. Maybe we feel more attached to them, or less, depending on how we perceived them before. Life always happens, and at that point in our lives, we need to remind ourselves that we are just human beings, and we are allowed to make mistakes like everyone else. However, we should not do anything that goes against humanity. We learn a lot from our mistakes, and we must not be harsh on ourselves. We can make mistakes, realize them, learn from them, and move on. Sitting on our mistakes and regretting them will be the second mistake of wasting our time. We are allowed to keep learning at any phase of our lives. Learning should never stop, and that's how we refresh ourselves every day and keep improving for the sake of "bettering us" for tomorrow. 

By not becoming a prisoner of our past mistakes, we allow ourselves to be a guest of our present moment, enjoy ourselves, and live in the moment to the fullest. At that point in your life where you are feeling lost, alone, shattered, and worthless, you will require your own support more than ever before. Because the moment you lose your own belief in yourself, you will remain none. It requires more than hard work to get to the place where you want to be, and that is the courage to be yourself and focus on the path of improvement. 

 It is true that when we start something, we do not know everything about it. There will be times when you will feel exhausted after investing energy again and again in the same process and not being able to get what you expected. At this step, your real principles come into play, which will help you keep moving forward. Remember that once you are in the process, build the habit of not leaving the process before you accomplish what you want from your life. No doubt adversities will come into the picture, but they are the blessings in disguise that will make the person that deserves the purpose you are working for and also bring the best version of yours that is in itself a unique way of building yourself.

 The biggest advice that you would ever hear is never to stop learning. Train your mind to always be learning new things because every day, there is always something to learn. So build a habit to keep learning and rising always. Being yourself simply means realizing what unique qualities you have and refining them with time. We are all born unique, and surely we all have something unique to offer to people. After some point in our lives, we may not be appreciated for what we do, and that's how we learn to be ourselves. No matter how many positive inputs we give in, we would never be appreciated or acknowledged for that. At every point, we need to remind ourselves that it's okay to not be part of the appreciation team and connect ourselves with the greater purpose that suffices to make us feel satisfied. 

In conclusion, the best strategy to achieve what you want is the one that you choose for yourself. Stop following the trends or walk the same path trodden by people before you. You can pave your path and explore every new and good thing that perfectly resonates with you and brings the peace that you choose to live in and the peace that chooses out of no doubt.